Image & Text contributed by Diya Nanawati, Mumbai
My paternal grandfather Nalin Kumar Dhirajlal Nanavati was born in Rangoon, Burma in 1915, during the British Raj. He was the second of three children born to my great grandfather, an Indian civil servant (ICS) from Gujrat. The family belonged to a trading community called Surati Baniyas.
Nalinkumar Dhirajlal Nanavati, my grandfather, was a dashing soldier with the Allied Forces in the 1940’s. He was a soldier in the British Eighth Army and a Major with the 5th Royal Maratha Light Infantry. When the forces were ordered to go and fight the wars of WWII, he left behind a beautiful wife of Bengali and French parentage and a young daughter. But the family back home didn’t hear from him a long time and his beautiful wife assumed that he has passed away in war.
But he did return to India, a battle scarred survivor, victorious from saving peninsular Italy from the German Nazis. Later, he was awarded a military cross for his bravery in the Battle of Monte Cassino. However, he had won the war but lost his family, his wife and daughter, to another man. His daughter later married into a Parsi Baronetcy in Bombay. As time passed my grandfather became Lt. Colonel in the Indian Army, and he met Sharada Ramaiah, the woman who would become my grandmother.
My grandmother Sharada Ramaiah and my grandfather Nalin met over a game of tennis in New Delhi. He was charmed by her intellectual personality. Both my grandparents from my dad’s side of the family came from educated families and had english governesses. Grandma Sharada (born in 1925) was a Brahmin from Karnataka, and even though it was an inter-caste marriage, her mother did not object. My grandfather was so charming and friendly that it really did not matter whose ancestors were traders and whose were priests. As with many families in India, they came from the same class though not the same caste. She took on the role of being the Army wife with utter grace, entertaining diplomats and politicians with great élan. My grandfather was by then the commandant of the Indian Military Academy (IMA) in Dehradun and later the military attaché for India with the Indian embassy in Moscow. He enjoyed huge success and a meteoric rise to the rank of a Major General. In 1959, Sanjeev Nanavati, their only child, my dad, was born.
Tragically, the beautiful life my grandparents and father enjoyed was to be short lived. My grandfather Nalin was sent on a non-family posting in Kashmir where he was killed on the November 22, 1963 at the age of 45 in one of the most tragic helicopter crashes of all times. All six senior officers including my grandfather died. The other officers were –
- Maj. Gen Nalin Kumar Dhirajlal Nanavati (Military Cross, General Officer Commanding 25 Infantry Division)
- Lt. Gen Bikram Singh (General Officer Commanding, 15 Corps)
- Air Vice Marshall Erlic Pinto (Air Officer Commanding, Western Command)
- Lt. Gen Daulet Singh (General Officer Commanding in Chief, Western Command)
- Brigadier SR Oberoi, (Military Cross, Commander 93 Infantry Brigade)
- Flt. Lt. SS Sodhi
Many conjectured that the helicopter was sabotaged because so many senior officers lost their lives at the same time, but the Indian Army ruled out sabotage and stated that it was an accident. Later as cautionary rule, the government banned senior officers of the army to ever travel together. The same rule now applies to several corporations too.
Grandma Sharada Nanavati was widowed at a young age of 34, and my dad Sanjeev, was just four years old. With only 12 rupees in her bank account, it took Sharada many years to get a succession certificate (issued by a civil court to the legal heirs of a deceased person). She never took a paisa from her wealthy relatives and instead chose to live her life with dignity and raise her son alone. Fortunately she was educated with a Masters in History, Politics and Economics and was a journalist too. With recommendations from Field Marshall Sam Maneckshaw, she began working at the WHO and then later with the USIS in New Delhi. This was a great achievement for a woman in her times.
As a single and independent mother, my grandmother educated my dad, and with blood, sweat and tears built a modest home in the ‘War Widows colony’ in Delhi. Daddy and Grandma remain very grateful to the Indian Army. My granddad was a war hero but I believe my grandma who is 89 years old now, is a hero too.
Sep 04, 2014 | Categories: 1940s, 1960s, Aircraft, Brahmin, British Indian Army, British Reign, Certificates, Chiffon, Civil Services, Clubs, Cotton, Defence, Education, English, Fashion Accessories, Future icons from the Past, Goa, Gujarati, Helicopter, House of their dreams, House Wife, Indian Army, Inter Caste, Jain, Jewellery, Kashmir, Kerala, Malyali, Masters, Medal, Men in Uniform, Mixed, Noteworthy Journeys, Parties, Previous, Sarees, Second Marriage, Trader, Uncategorized, War Hero, Wartime Separation, Widow, Women Empowerment, World War II | Tags: 15 Corps, 1940s, Air Officer Commanding, Air Vice Marshall Erlic Pinto, Brigadier SR Oberoi, British Empire, British Reign, Burma, Commander 93 Infantry Brigade, Couple, Dehradun, Delhi, Diya Nanawati, Education, Fashion & Trends, Fashion Accessories, Flt. Lt. SS Sodhi, General Officer Commanding, General Officer Commanding 25 Infantry Division, General Officer Commanding in Chief, German Nazis, Gujrat, Indian civil servant, Indian Military Academy, inter-caste marriage, Italy, Jewellery, Lt. Gen Bikram Singh, Lt. Gen Daulet Singh, Maj. Gen Nalin Kumar Dhirajlal Nanavati, Marriage, Migration, military attaché, Military Cross, Moscow, Nalin Kumar Dhirajlal Nanavati, Rangoon, sabotage, Sam Maneckshaw, Sarees, Sari, Surati Baniyas, USIS, Western Command, WHO, Women Empowerment | 20 Comments »
97 – The pioneer whose contributions in Africa survived early colonial times through to modern day Tanzania
Images and Text contributed by the Khambhaita family, U.K. & Tanzania
Our grandfather, Jagjivan Samji Khambhaita (top row, middle) was born on March 10, 1912 in Kalavad (Gujarat), India and came to Tanzania in 1928 when he was a teenager. He married Jashvanti Ben who was born on August 6, 1915 in Talagana (Gujarat), India and went on to have seven sons and a daughter. The family photograph was taken in the early 1960s in Tanga, Tanzania shortly after an uncle’s marriage during which the family had gathered.
A central pillar to the family, he was also widely known and held in high regard across communities in Tanzania, East Africa, South Africa and India. I witnessed this in 2008 on a visit to Tanzania when I went about purchasing a bus ticket in Dar-es-Salaam’s main bus station and was required to fill in my details. The elderly station clerk instantly recognised my last name and embraced me enthusiastically saying he knew of my grandfather. I was left speechless. I knew I was truly dealing with an individual who left more than just a mere footprint.
Our grandfather had an incredible flair for architectural design and entrepreneurship from a young age. He partnered with his elder brother in Moshi, Tanzania from 1928, building and contracting on various projects. In 1938, with his younger brother he established his own building & civil engineering contractor business under the name of J.S. Khambhaita Limited in Moshi and in 1942 he expanded the company to form branches in Tanga and Arusha.
By the early 1960s, the company employed around 300 Africans and 10 Asians and undertook large projects such as the European quarters for the Public Works Department (PWD) in Tanga and part of a large primary school in Moshi. They were also sub-contractors for the Air Ministry at Tanga and went on to become responsible for more than 150 prominent buildings in Tanga, Moshi and Arusha.
He split his time between businesses, travelling, photographing and participating in religious/social work with a significant contribution to the Hindu community, particularly in Tanga and Moshi. Indeed, in the 1950s his company undertook the task, free of all cost, to construct a Hindu temple in Moshi, against the scenic backdrop of Mount Kilimanjaro. He travelled widely throughout East Africa, India and exactly like Mahatma Gandhi was also told to disembark from a train in South Africa under the apartheid regime.
J.S. Khambhaita was also particularly interested in family matters and genealogy, reaching out to and photographing relatives overseas and later compiling an impressive family tree dating back well over 350 years. He remained an Indian citizen for most of his life until 1964 when he took up Tanzanian citizenship. He passed away on March 10, 1976 battling Leukaemia on the day of his Birthday in Moshi, Tanzania.
Fast forwarding the clock to nearly 75 years to today, the company he founded in 1938 remains a strong concern in Tanzania and is termed a ‘Class 1’ contractor. It is one of a handful of private firms to have survived through early colonial times into modern day Tanzania. More importantly though, his name and legacy will continue to live on in the hearts of his grandchildren, great grandchildren and all those he reached out to during his life.
Dec 10, 2012 | Categories: 1910s, 1960s, Achievements, Apartheid, Architecture, Cancer, Charity, Commerce, Cultural Attire, Dar es Salaam, Dressed for an Occasion, East Africa, Entrepreneur, Founders, Future icons from the Past, Gujarat, Gujarati, Hair Styles, House Wife, India, Men's Clothes, Migration, Mount Kilimanjaro, Noteworthy Journeys, Personal Collections, Photo Collection, Photo Studio, Photography, Previous, Prints & Stitches, Rags to Riches, Relocation, Sarees, Stations & Junctions, Studio Backdrops, Studio Portraits, Tanzania, Western Clothes, Women's Clothes | Tags: Africa, Apartheid, Architecture, Arusha, Builder, Buildings, Charity, Contractor, Dar-es-salaam, East Africa, Gandhi, Gujat, Gujrat, Gujrati, Hinduism, J.S Khambhaita Limited, Khambaitha, Migration, Moshi, Photography, PWD, South Africa, Studio Portraits, Tanga, Tanzania, Temple, travelling | 3 Comments »
Image and Text contributed by Mitul Patel, Texas
This picture was taken at a fair in Surat, Gujrat. It was supposed to be only a close family photograph, however, some of our family friends’ and their families joined in and this picture was clicked. I remember it used to be one of the only places where families, who couldn’t afford a camera could get a picture taken. Most of these people you see in the Photograph, all of whom are of the last name ‘Patel’, migrated to USA and New Zealand, including my family. I was around three or four years old in the picture (top left, as a baby). Almost all of the Patels in the picture now own and run businesses like Pizza Parlours, Liquor Stores, Motels, Hotels or work in the IT industry. My parents and I too live in Rockdale, Texas, USA and run a hotel called Rockdale Inn.
May 07, 2010 | Categories: 1970s, Gujarati, Hair Styles, Hotel, Indian Clothes, Indian Clothes, Men, Men's Clothes, Migration, Photographic Techniques, Props, Sarees, Shoes, Shopkeeper, Surat, Town Fairs, Western Clothes, Western Clothes, Women, Women's Clothes | Tags: 1970s, Fair, Family, Gujarati, Gujrat, Gujrati, Hair Styles, Hotel, Mela, Migration, Motel, New Zealand, Patel, Photographic Techniques, Props, Rockdale, Rockdale Inn, Sarees, Shoes, Shopkeeper, Studio Portraits, Surat, Texas, Town Fairs, USA | Leave A Comment »